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The Childrens Museum Of The Lowcountry

2008-11-25T16:15:00.008-05:00

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So, quickly approaching is Gabriel's 3rd birthday. I've sort of made up my mind that this year I would not be hosting his birthday at home. With work and school and life's everyday whatevers, it gets tiring for me to clean before AND after the party, plus entertain and get everything ready. So, I started to look into other options for this year.

After some searching around online, I remembered that my godsister Jen had mentioned something about a Children's Museum downtown. And before long me, Jen, and the birthday boy to be were on our way to check things out.

On our way to pick Jen up, Gabriel was way past his naptime, and promptly fell asleep in the car. But once we got downtown and into the museum, he was wide-eyed and ready to explore!

So, each room in the museum is a different theme of an exhibit, and the idea is for the children to be able to learn about things hands-on. For example, one room taught them about the weather. The kids can actually make the cloud on top of the room rain, and the water falls into a river. They can also make the sun shine, which demonstrates how evaporation occurs, and even open the dams to release water into the river and watch the city of Charleston light up from hydropower. Gabriel loved playing with the boats along the river, and watching them go along the waterway. They even have little smocks to prevent them from getting their clothes wet.

Perhaps my favorite exhibit was the one with a shrimp boat. The room was designed to look like a dock with a large shrimp boat the kids can actually get on. On board, they can cast nets "overboard" and hopefully get a big catch. Of course their big catch is other kids standing in the water (blue carpet), and placing crabs, fish, shrimp, etc. into the net. Once you pull your net back onto the boat, you can then walk onto the dock and place your catch onto a conveyer belt. Gabriel really thought this was cool, cause he was able to crank his catch along the belt, and then place them onto a scale to see how well he did for the day. Also on the boat, you can even go inside of the cabin where there are sleeping quarters complete with a little bathroom and a cooking area. Wanna be a captain? You can sit up front and "control" the ship too and even push buttons to make thunder sound. Rain jackets and rain boots are provided for extra effects too. Super cute.

There are actually other exhibits, and I think that it is safe to say that Gabriel enjoyed them all. I take that back. He didn't seem much interested in the arts and crafts area. Once I saw how much he enjoyed our visit, I knew that this was the place to hold his birthday party. I'm very much looking forward to it, and hope that you all can make it too!!

Trippy Christmas Music Rocks!

2008-11-20T13:45:00.003-05:00

Went out with the girls last night to see the Trans-Siberian Orchestra. I've heard some good things about the show, so decided to give it a shot. The first half of it was...eh...the second half was good. Their most popular song is probably "Wizards In Winter," which I personally thought was the best song and light show of the whole concert. But if you have epilepsy, I wouldn't go. Heavy strobes and lasers. Check out the little clip. I swiped it from Youtube, but you get the point...

Needful Things

2008-11-20T13:00:00.002-05:00

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Oh...I'm getting that fever. I've taken a very long break since my race last September. As my clothes are getting tighter, and I'm eating whatever my heart desires, I'm becoming increasingly disgusted with myself...once again.

I think I'm going to run the Turkey Run next week for Thanksgiving. That will be motivation for me to get off my ass and start training again. It's just a short 5k, but hey, something is better than nothing. And then in December is the Reindeer Run. I don't know why, but I need to stay in races to keep me training. And coincidentally, I haven't been in any races since September. That must be why I took such a long break. And then, there is the annual Cooper River Bridge Run in April.

So, the year that Gabriel was born, I went to Once Upon A Child and bought a jogging stroller. I don't know what brand it was, but hell...whatever. It was $40. I was all excited about trying it out, and I excitedly cleaned it up, got Gabriel ready and took off for my first baby run. What a piece of shit. It's heavy as shit, hard to control, and I was more tired from fighting with the damned thing than I was from my run. Needless to say, that run quickly turned to a brisk walk. And that was the end of my jogging stroller.

Every time I run there's always the hassle of who will watch the baby. Kevin? My parents? Kevin's parents? Oh, nobody can do it? Well, no run for me today. Damn...So with the weather cooled, which will allow me for later runs in the day, I decided to do some investigating on which jogging strollers really had good reviews.

There was one stroller that runners absolutely raved about. The Bob Ironman jogging stroller! Ta-Da!! Lightweight, foldable (you can keep it in your SUV and use it as a regular stroller too), easy to control...awww, yeah...that's what I need right there.

Excitedly, I started shopping online, and the pricetag on this thing is $350! Ouch...hmmmm, with tuition and books and Christmas coming, maybe not int he budget right now. But you know how you get the bug and you want something, you obsess and you GOTTA have it-right now? Sorry, but tuition is on the top of my priority list right now. Instead, I called up Kevin and asked if I could have just ONE present for Christmas this year.....

Anyone else wanna beat him to the punch? I don't wanna wait that long! Waaahh!

Mickey and Minnie's Magical Journey

2008-11-18T11:54:00.003-05:00

Disney on Ice came the collesium and I decided to give it a try and see if Gabriel would enjoy it. Every year, they do an iceskating production with different Walt Disney movies. I wasn't sure if Gabriel would be willing to sit throughout the entire show, but I figured what the hell....for the sake of a continuation of our Walt Disney theme...

Kevin and I loaded up and headed towards the collesium. Surprisingly, it was not as packed as I had anticipated it to be. I don't know if it was because they would be showing twice a day for 4 days, or if it was a result of our economy, but I was pleasantly surprised we wouldn't be slam packed. Better yet, I had purchased some pretty good seats that were fairly close to the stage.

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This year, they did a production of The Little Mermaid, Lilo and Stitch, Peter Pan, Lion King, and Mary Poppins. For the most part, Gabriel recognized a majority of the characters. He excitedly waved at them, and bopped along in his seat to the music. By intermission, he badly had to go the potty and by the time we got back to our seat, was becoming a little antsy. Thankfully, the show resumed and he was once again enthralled. In an adult's point of view (and I use the term "adult" loosely), I thought it was very cute and found myself singing along to the songs. Oh, and the guy who played the dude in Lilo and Stitch was totally HOT.

I'm actually thinking that we will do this again next year...I wonder which characters they will use...

Here's just a little clip of the grand finale...

Halloween 2008

2008-11-15T21:45:00.011-05:00

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Typically Halloween is my favorite holiday. It's really been a very long time since I've enjoyed Halloween and gotten into it. To be quite honest, I don't even remember the last time I really have (was it in 1999 with you, Anna?). Sure I've thrown together some quick lame costumes, but I really haven't enjoyed it in awhile.

Now that Gabriel is a little older and can understand things a little bit better, I was excited to get him into the tradition of costumes and telling him stories of trick-or-treating. He even got to help make his first jack-o-lantern with his mommy and daddy!

He was quite excited with the results, and would say goodbye to his pumpkin every morning, and greet him with a kiss upon returning at night. Sure, he thought this was fun, but he had no idea what would be in store for him when the real celebrating started...

As you probably know, Erick and El had their second baby just a couple of months ago. Erick and I talked back and forth for awhile and finally decided that it would be best for me to come during Halloween. With this visit, we could actually accomplish three things: visit Nicholas, take the kids trick-or-treating together, and finally have an early celebration for Isa's 2nd birthday. With Erick being so far away from home, and travelling with Nicholas perhaps a little difficult for them, this was the perfect opportunity for Isa to have family to celebrate her birthday. Before you knew it, Disney tickets were purchased, and we were on!

The road trip with Gabriel was surprisingly not as bad as I thought it would be. I was a little worried about how he would take sitting in his car seat that long, but after a quick bout of complaining during his cranky nap time, he was fine. We mostly spent the time singing along with kids songs, and when he got tired of that(and the kids songs got annoying for me), I put some movies on to occupy him. Thank goodness for dvd players. It really makes me wonder how our parents survived 4 children on long car rides. The trip took a bit longer with the constant potty breaks and some play time during a stop for lunch, but we made it in decent time.

Nicholas is adorable! I was pretty surprised to see how big he was already. I know he's only 2 months old, but I could tell he had already filled out and was smiling. After relaxing for a bit and chatting with the family, it was time to get ready and get our Halloween weekend started!

To kick it off, Erick had the idea of dressing up as the Addams family. El stayed home with Nicholas and my dad, and I was able to borrow her old Morticia costume. Erick dressed as Gomez, Gabriel as Pugsley (complete with dynamite), and Isa as an adorable little axe bearing Wednesday. Of course, our little clan couldn't leave with Thing, who decided to tag along on Gomez's shoulder. A few pictures were snapped and we were off to Disney's Not So Scary Halloween.

The kids had a great time trick-or-treating and getting on some of the rides. It was really neat to just walk around and see how Disneyworld decorated their event. We had a lot of compliments on our costumes, and perhaps even some confused looks as to how our children were so close in age (he's my BROTHER and they're COUSINS!). The children definitely had fun playing and running around with each other. It was entertaining to see them doing what kids do. Before you knew it, the park was closing and we were all pooped. It was time to head home and power up for another busy day.

The next day, the house was busy once again with children running and playing and everyone scrambling to get ready. Lunch at Cracker Barrel took a bit longer than expected, and we were going home to change clothes and head to Downtown Disney.

Gabriel is in a dinosaur phase right now, and asked if he could be one for Halloween. Since we were the Addams Family the day before, I decided to let him be whatever he wanted for our second day of trick-or-treating. Apparently, Downtown Disney just opened up a new place called T-Rex Grille. It's pretty cool; there are large moving dinosaurs and different areas of the restaurant demonstrated different themes. There was an underwater theme, and ice age, and even one that looked like a volcano. Of course each habitat had different types of dinosaurs. Gabriel's favorite dinosaur is the coincidentally the t-rex, and I thought he would be excited to see one in real life. Unfortunately, he was a bit intimidated by the loud roars, and it was a little difficult to even take pictures near it. Either way, it was super cool to see, and I would definitely go back to let him give it another try.

Downtown Disney was also having trick-or-treating stops in each of their stores, so once again the kids were sugaring it up. I love this picture of Gabriel and Isa! She is really starting to look like her mommy...
Here are the three knuckleheads all dressed up in their Halloween's best, with Lolo and Auntie Ellen.
Our last stop was the carousel, and once again we were all pooped and ready to go home. This was the last night of our Halloween celebration, but not the end of our family fun! But wait...there's more!!

The kids were busy occupying themselves with "whatever" and little did Isa know what was in store for her this day. As I was saying before, with our families so far apart, and travelling difficult for Erick and El, this was the perfect opportunity to celebrate little girl's birthday together. During her nap, Erick and El cooked and prepared and decorated. And when she finally woke...she was definitely surprised! After the blowing out of candles and opening of gifts, the children were left to play while the adults quickly got their eat on.

By the way, you're welcome Erick and El for the messy gift that will keep on giving! Ha ha!!

And of course, once we were all finished eating, it was time for the kids to eat their lunch...which mostly consisted of candy and cupcakes. Healthy!

After some cleaning up and resting, we spent the rest of our evening "low-key" by shopping at the outlet mall. Because you know, shopping with 3 kids is always really relaxing and low-key! Ha! But I was able to pick up some really kick ass Vans for Gabriel...

And then, just as quickly as that, the next day came and it was time to go home again.

Although I always enjoy my trips to visit my brother, I would have to say that this was probably my favorite. I suppose that as we get older, and have kids, we begin to find joy in different types of things-such as watching our children find excitement and wonder in the things we'd forgotten about. Gabriel was so excited to see "Cousin Isa" and "His Baby Nico." I was curious to know if he would be jealous of the attention I would be giving to his cousins, but he wasn't at all. In fact, while I was laying on the couch with Nicholas on my chest, Gabriel even crawled up next to him, kissed him, and laid with us both with his around his back. It makes me happy that it seems he understands what family is. And as we bid our good-byes, I couldn't help but to feel a little sad. Moments like these are the ones that we should remember as every day events; not only for special occassions. I know that Erick and El are planning for a move (I don't know where), but I hope it will be close enough to be able to spend more time together.

Thank you Erick and El for always making our trips so very special! As always, looking forward to seeing you all--Gabriel's birthday party?

Kids Love Animals

2008-11-06T09:43:00.002-05:00

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Kids really love animals. Check out Gabriel feeding some goats at Greg's house....

...and he also has a boxer named Kiana. Gabriel just loves these furry creatures!

You Know The Old Saying

2008-10-10T09:51:00.002-04:00

...what is it? When it rains, it pours....

So much shit going on, and so many things I am worried about right now. I don't typically get over-stressed, but I keep taking blow after blow. Tuesday, I will know more info, and perhaps after then I will expand on this...

We'll see...but in the meantime, keep us in your prayers.

Old Picture

2008-10-03T16:16:00.001-04:00

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...oh look, I found a picture of myself from 1976. yeah, those were the good 'ol days.

Picture Perfect

2008-09-14T11:50:00.001-04:00

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I know it doesn't really look like this all the time, but these are the kind of pictures that make people want to become parents. Aren't my niece and nephew gorgeous?

I totally wanna bite them in the ass right now....

Hot Off The Press!

2008-09-10T00:14:00.003-04:00

Video of Tracie and I finishing up our race at the Virginia Beach Rock and Roll Half Marathon! Did you catch us? I'm wearing the yellow tank top in the far right side of the screen...

Happy Birthday To Me

2008-09-09T15:14:00.004-04:00

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I would say that this was another woeful birthday, but you know, I actually didn't care about being another year older. I gotta admit, on my 29th birthday, I was depressed. It was my last year in my 20's. For my 30th birthday, it was like whoopty-doo. Here I am. And then finally this year, it didn't dawn on me until I was at my race last week-I've got a lot of cool things to expect in my 30's! This is a whole new decade of new experiences and another decade of personal growth. I'm kind of excited!

I came into my office Monday morning, and the girls had decorated it with balloons and a big, pretty flowery gift bag. They even went to Cupcakes and picked us up some yummy dessert.

So, here it is...another year. Okay, it took a year to two to get over the initial shock, but now--No big deal...I'm looking quite forward to learning about my life in the 30's. Good-bye 20's, it was fun! But I have a feeling my 30's are going to be even better...

...and here I am with my impersonation of Mickey Mouse...

2:57:38

2008-08-31T13:46:00.003-04:00

Tracie and I have been training for months now, all for today. We're in Virginia Beach, and running The Rock and Roll Half Marathon. I have always enjoyed running, but I am really not a strong runner. The last few years, I started getting into the Cooper River Bridge Runs, which are only 6 miles, but a half marathon is something I certainly never considered.

Tracie brought up the idea of it after we finished last year's bridge run, but it was something I quickly dismissed. Somehow, I started to go back and forth with the idea, and began to read up on it. This race was to help raise funds for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, and I had recently lost a brother in law who was diagnosed with leukemia in 2000, and eventually lost his battle to pancreatic cancer in 2006. Suddenly, this race had a whole new meaning to it, and so the training began.

Tracie and I have trained consistently and faithfully for months now. I don't know if a non-runner can truly understand the time and discipline that goes into training for a marathon. I get up at 4:30 on Saturday mornings to beat the heat during our long runs--mind you, that Saturdays are the days I should be sleeping in and relaxing on my day off. And then, there are the week days when you are tired from a long day at work, and make the effort to get some mileage in. Long story short, you really gotta want to do this.

Anyway, I was really pleased with our run today. It was definitely hot and muggy, but we started the first 8 miles strong. By mile 10, I was crashing and felt like I wanted to give up. At one point, I was literally almost in tears....but we had gone too far and worked too hard to give up. By mile 12 it was all mental. My body was already exhausted, and all I could do was keep my mind strong to finish out my last mile. The crowds cheering helped pushed me through, and Tracie and I crossed the finish line hand-in-hand exhausted, relieved, and proud...I couldn't help but to cry as we finished!

Definitely no easy task, but certainly worth attaining something you never thought you would do...oh, and also we beat our best time!

Ken, this was for you...we love and miss you so much...

**update**
I forgot to mention that during our half-marathon today, I saw the Hoyt Team going past us on their home stretch. You have no idea how excited I was to see them! If you don't know who they are already, do yourself a favor and look them up. Dick Hoyt's love and dedication is amazing, and I can't help but feel inspired and in complete awe by him. I got so choked up seeing him and his son in real life today!! Just another little push of encouragement for me today....

I Love North Charleston Because...

2008-08-28T13:24:00.002-04:00

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...when I pump gas on Ashley Phosphate, a big fat crazy bitch comes out of the gas station arguing with some invisible person. Then I get pointed at and she starts walking towards me while cussing and swearing, and pulls her clothes off (see her working on her pants?). Then as she is cussing and still coming towards me I call my co-werks, laughing, while snapping pictures....

by this time, a small crowd has gathered, and some are even afraid to leave the gas station store. i drive off, entertained, and begin to hear the police sirens. as i circle back around, they are arresting her and i am so thankful for the pick-me-up to my boring day.

man, i love north charleston.

Expensive Weekend

2008-07-21T10:18:00.002-04:00

Kevin decided to go out of town with Kai this past weekend. I really wasn't in the mood to be alone all weekend, so Gabriel and I decided it would be fun to stay at his grandparents' house.

The weekend was good; mostly just hanging around, shopping, and Chuck E Cheese's. By Sunday we were ready to go to church, and then wait for his daddy to get home. I was in good spirits until I saw my car in their driveway. Some idiot had smashed in the rear driver window, and stole my gps, ipod, and Gabriel's dvd player. Fuckers.

So, our light weekend ended in a bit of a sour note, unfortunately. I know it's just stuff, but shit...they seriously need to move out of that neighborhood. It's gone to shit!

Sex And The City Is The Diggity Bomb

2008-06-02T16:52:00.003-04:00

I just saw Sex and the City yesterday with my girlfriend. Man, I was heartbroken when the series ended, and overjoyed to learn there would be a movie. Some say the movie wasn't that good, but I don't care. I loved it. It's just my little escape into my fantasy world of being single and fabulous. Oh, if only...*sigh*

That's The Luck I Have!

2008-05-31T09:31:00.002-04:00

Don't you love it when you never really buy anything for yourself and then decide that you deserve a good splurge? That's how I felt about my Coach purse. I use it every day, and I love it!

And then, don't you really like it when you're not paying attention, and shut your purse in your trunk, not realizing that the handle is sticking out? Yeah, it's great because it's positioned just perfectly so to where I can't get my trunk open because something is catching on the latch. No phone, no wallet, no pretty purse that I splurged on.

And then Kevin tries to get it out and finally says that the only way to get it out is to cut your handles off. Yeah, I love that...Just go ahead and cut the handles off my pretty $500 Coach purse. Fuck...Because you know, I'm just made of money and I can go ahead and buy another. Hell, why not two?

I Think My Alarm Clock Is Posessed

2008-05-20T23:43:00.002-04:00

So, here I am in Houston. I'm working here this week, and I am all anxious about getting to work on time. The driver is picking me up at 7:30, so I set my alarm to get up at 6:15. At 6:25, I finally get up and shower.

I get out of the shower and am drying my hair, glance at the clock, and it says 7:45! My hair is dripping wet, and I haven't even put on my makeup yet, and my mind is racing. Oh, shit...how am I going to race downstairs and make it to work on time? I quickly dial the front desk and ask them if my driver is waiting. Did I misread my clock? Did I snooze longer than 10 minutes? How could this happen?

She informs me he is not there yet, but I am still confused. "What time is it?" I ask. She replies, "I think 6:45." I snap back, "You think? Is it 6:45 or not? Because if it's not, I'm late for work.." She informs me that she is right, it is 6:45. I sit down and take a deep breath, and look perplexed at my clock. How the fuck did that happen?!

This shit is too stressful.

Paul Potts From UK

2008-05-18T19:57:00.001-04:00

Talk about hidden talent! I heard this guy's voice, and I think my reaction was like everyone else's. My jaw just dropped! I purchased his cd around Christmastime last year, and I thought you might want to hear him too, if you haven't already. Wow...

Happy Mother's Day!

2008-05-11T23:30:00.001-04:00

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My big bro, Ricky, was able to make it to celebrate Mother's Day with our parents this year! We originally had plans to eat downtown at Poogan's Porch, but it poured all night through and we didn't think it would be a good idea to go because of flooding downtown. Instead, I picked up some Carraba's curbside and we enjoyed lunch together at home.

Kevin had plans to do something with our little family this year, but something came up, and he ended up having to clean the dojo from a group who rented it and left it completely trashed. Oh well, maybe next year. I did, however, get a pretty bouquet of flowers and a card from Gabriel. To be honest, I wasn't really disappointed; I was completely happy to stay home, since I hardly ever get to see my brother. It gave us a chance to just hang around and let Gabriel spend some quality time with his Uncle Ricky (whom I happen to think he resembles).

Overall, a good weekend. Yeah, it's good to be a mommy....

Yes, They Work!! :D

2008-05-06T12:29:00.002-04:00

It's been confirmed; the Sennheiser MX75's work like a charm! I managed to work up a heavy sweat on the treadmills yesterday, and not a problem! Not once did I have my earbud fall out, nor did I have to readjust. The trick is, there is actually an extra little rubber piece on top of the actual bud that goes in your ear. This extra piece wedges into that little groove above your ear canal, and voila! No more slips!

On top of that, it's official--I registered for the Rock and Roll Half Marathon yesterday. Race day will be in Virginia Beach, on August 31st. Proceeds will go to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, and I will be running in honor of my late brother-in-law, Ken Willard. As you might remember, he was diagnosed with leukemia around 2003, and eventually lost his battle in 2006 to pancreatic cancer. Who can't be inspired to challenge your body to something you've not done before, plus raise money for a worthy cause?

I've still quite a bit more work ahead of me, but luckily, I still have time.

Finally!

2008-05-03T18:36:00.001-04:00

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Since it's started warming up, I've been aggrivated with trying ot find some earbuds that will stay in my ears when I sweat. So far, I've been through 3 pairs already, with no luck. I can be completely focused on my run and feeling good with my tunes keeping me motivated, and then my earbuds will start falling out. Every couple of minutes, I will have to catch them and then readjust. It gets pretty distracting, and I've gotten to the point where I absolutely cannot run without my music.

After much research, I 've found that this is a common runner's problem. It seems there are a few suggestions to fix this problem, but the Sennheiser MX75's seem to have popped up a few times. So, of course I decided to buy them and give it a try. For $50, I was a little hesitant, as my last pair of Sony's were another $50. But, what the hell, I needed them.

I ran 6 1/2 miles today in the heat and sweated like a pig. Surprisingly, the earbuds never budged! I am stoked!! Just to be sure, I will try them again when I run the treadmills on Monday. Hopefully, they were perform the same-but I am impressed so far!

I've Been A Bit MIA

2008-04-29T20:37:00.002-04:00

Yeah, I know...I've been a bit MIA. I don't know what I've been doing to keep me so busy. I guess between work and the baby, and training for this half marathon, I've been a little distracted.

Anna, Chris, and Ava came up last week through the weekend. It was kind of nice. Mostly we just hung around and had a couple of birthday parties to attend to on Saturday. That, alone, is enough to wear anyone out.

I don't often get to see them, and Gabriel and Ava play so well. I'm trying to convince them to move back; I even tried to sell them my neighbor's house next door....LOL

No go. (Damn)

Off To Mexico!

2008-04-17T22:39:00.004-04:00

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Finally, I didn't think this week would ever end! After a long and stressful few months, we were off to vacation to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary. Tracie and Roddy decided to tag along too...It kind of works out, as Kevin and Roddy have been best friends for years, and Tracie and I have also gotten to be really great friends.

I have really been anticipating this trip, and to be honest, I was quite pleased. Cancun is really pretty, and the people are all very friendly and accomodating. Our first night, we were in search for some authentic mexican food. We ended up at the Paloma Bonita, with a live mariachi band. Food was great, and the band was a nice touch. They even came to our table to sing to us!

We really didn't want to pack our schedule tight with excursions, so the next day was spent lounging around the pool and drinking. Ahhhhh...life is so hard....

Even Tracie and Roddy got a bit of a romantic getaway...

I'm really not much of a water person, but I try to snorkel every time I go on vacation. It always take me awhile to get over the anxiety, but once I do, I'm glad. We visited the ecological park, Xel-Ha, which was pretty cool to do our snorkeling. The water was fresh and saltwater mixed, so the fish weren't quite as pretty as the ones I've seen in Hawaii. But, it was cool anyhow, and I was excited to test out my "new" camera underwater.

Another cool place we visited was Tulum, which is an old ancient Mayan ruin. I'm no history buff by no means, but it was amazing to be able to venture the ruins, and visualize a civilization completely different than we know today.
There were paintings still intact in some of the stone, and even a sacrifical area. The coolest thing is that nobody knows where the Mayans even went? (enter Twilight Zone music here)

Aside from our anniversary, it was also Kevin's birthday this past Tuesday. So, Tracie and Roddy treated us all out to a great Asian bistro, called Silk. He even got a yummy birthday cheesecake that we all shared. Yum!!

Well, it's back to the real world now. I was a little sad to leave Mexico; I really enjoyed it and the people! We will definitely be going back.

2008 Bridge Run

2008-04-07T12:28:00.002-04:00

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I ran the annual Cooper River Bridge Run Saturday morning, with Tracie. We were expecting thunderstorms, and I was prepared with ponchos and my ipod in a ziplock bag, but we were lucky and never got rained on.

My goal was to run the entire bridge with no walk breaks, and it was accomplished at 1:17. With that goal being attained, I expected our time to have improved since last year, but strangely enough, I ran 4 minutes slower?! No big deal, but I am sort of at a loss. Anyway, I am still proud to have finished attaining my goal. Besides, I just love being a part of this event.

Saturday was also my 5th wedding anniversary, and we played it very low key. We'll be leaving early next Saturday morning to do our real anniversary celebration in Mexico. I can't wait!!

Are You In?

2008-03-17T15:12:00.001-04:00

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Tracie and I ran the annual Flowertown Festival Run this past Saturday. I really haven't trained much, since Gabriel and I have both been sick so much the past couple of weeks. To make things better, I inadvertantly signed up for the 10k, instead of the 5k.

At first, I figured I'd just suck it up and run the 10k, but at the last minute, decided to switch bib numbers and do half the race. Good thing, because I am definitely out of shape! I did run the entire race. No stellar time, but it was done in one piece. Only 3 more weeks go til Cooper River Bridge Run. Better get on it!

I Hate Being Sick

2008-03-06T15:01:00.003-05:00

All last week, Gabriel has been sick. We would wake up, and I would think he was fine, and the next thing you know, daycare is calling and asking me to pick him up from fevers. After a few times, I just started bringing him back to work.

The teachers said he was unusually quiet, and laying on the floor falling asleep while everyone else was playing. That's not like him. So, at first I would leave work early and take him home, but after a couple times, I began to bring him back to work with me, and what do you know? You would never guess he was sick. He made sure to keep us all entertained in the office, by finding some sort of trouble to get himself into. I can't say it was completely his fault; my office manager, Elain, had a hand in it....

Don't be alarmed, she unplugged the shredder, and showed him that the top came off. Thanks, Elaine. Before you knew it, he got some bright ideas on just what kind of fun that bin of white "snowy" stuff could be.

It's really fun to throw on Mommy, you know?

He made a huge mess out of our office, but what the hell. It was slow, and it was Friday at almost closing time. Besides, housekeeping would be there that night to clean up. And for those of you who know my job situation, you gotta have fun at a crappy job like that...I don't know. I think Gabriel was playing hooky, cause he sure doesn't look sick to me. But just for the record, he really was. He's just getting over a really bad ear infection and nast cold. And now, I'm home sick from catching it!

video to come tomorrow? I'm having problems right now uploading a cute video of Gabriel and my receptionist, Ms. Jean, having fun with the "snow."

Sanity Is On The Way!

2008-03-04T11:54:00.002-05:00

Hurray!! I told Kevin I wanted to scratch our annual Myrtle Beach Bike Week trip this year, and do something different and more "couple-y." I just booked a trip to Cancun, Mexico for our anniversary. Neither of us have been to Mexico yet, so I'm pretty excited! Kevin and I need some alone time, and I need a get-away!

How You Like Them Apples?

2008-02-26T16:05:00.003-05:00

...and Jimmy Kimmel strikes back to Sarah Silverman f*cking Matt Damon. Boo-yah!

(I think the Josh Groban part is the best!)

Gabriel Has Started Daycare!

2008-02-21T10:13:00.002-05:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, finally after a year of waiting, Northwood Academy has finally made room for Gabriel to begin his daycare there.

I know that normally parents are anxious and nervous about this sort of thing, but I suppose that because Gabriel is already accustomed to the teachers and the classroom from childcare services when we attend our Sunday church, I didn't have the slightest bit of anxiety. In fact, I've been quite excited for him.

I have really been fortunate to have both sets of grandparents living nearby to split babysitting duties, and after 2 years, I felt they had done more than their share. Initially as an infant, I really wouldn't have wanted him in daycare anyhow, but now that he's a toddler, I feel that it's important for his social development. Also, I felt it was important for him to have a structured environment where the world didn't revolve around him, and him alone.

Gabriel has taken very quickly to the routine change. He is excited as soon as we near his classroom, and fits right in. The teacher has even commented that he is the most well-adjusted child she has had yet. When I pick him up in the afternoon, he is always playing with the other children and excited to greet me, and show me whatever toys and/or friends he is playing with at that time. His teachers describe him as friendly, affectionate, well-adjusted, eager to participate, and very intelligent. That's my boy!

So, I am very pleased so far with this new change to our routine. I think with the exception of the grandparents missing him, we are all benefititng from this. Of course with daycare, comes the other joys that come with it. Like that fact that I am home today from work with Gabriel who has seem to have caught a bit of a stomach virus. Oh joy! It all comes with the territory, I suppose!!

ESP

2008-02-12T16:14:00.001-05:00

No wonder I had mixed feelings about my job. It's called E.S.P.

Happy Birthday, Gabriel!!

2008-02-06T11:08:00.000-05:00

...

Has another year really flown by so quickly? Gabriel celebrated his official birthday this past Saturday. The party was a lot smaller than last year's-by 75% or so. Pretty much it was simply our parents and siblings, which on my side it was only my parents and Jen able to attend. Even Kevin's side was a little sparse.

Jen bought him the cutest Sesame Street icecream cake for his birthday present from her.

...and Gabriel thanked her with a great big hug!

Even Kevin gave a hand getting things together for the party...

Some of the presents were pretty large, so Cody helped Gabriel out.

This one was a task.

...so much that he laid down and pretended to nap on his presents. "Zzzzzzzzz...."

You little clown...Happy Birthday, Gabriel!! You've brought another year of joy to me....

Funny As Hell

2008-02-01T15:38:00.000-05:00

Oh my goodness....this is funny as hell! First, a little background:

And here is a little gift from Jimmy Kimmel's girlfriend on his show's 5th Anniversary. Jimmy's reaction is priceless. Happy Anniversary!!

...And Let Me Add...

2008-02-01T09:51:00.000-05:00

...oh, and one more thing...

I once thought that those "kid harnesses" were mean, and treated children like dogs. Now I say, "Buy them!" They really help with those toddlers that like to run off away from you.

But, you need to consider getting the little strap protectors so that it doesn't dig into their necks.

Gabriel's Birthday Trip

2008-01-30T12:09:00.000-05:00

I really like having a kid. Yeah, they're tough and a lot of work, but damn...everything is so much more interesting. Like...plane rides! Gabriel and I headed off to Florida last week to celebrate his early 2nd birthday--compliments of Auntie Rachel, Uncle Erick, and Auntie Ellen. Gabriel actually flew for the first time when he was 10 months old, but of course, this one was much more interesting. He was surprisingly very well behaved, and looked out the window as we took off. "Wheeeeeee!!!" He loved taking off and giggled with delight!

The first day was pretty laid back. Auntie Ellen and cousin Isa picked us up from the airport, and after a quick refreshing, we met Uncle Erick for dinner on his break. After dinner, we were all done for the day and turned in early for a busy weekend.

After a restful Thursday, Erick took the day off to hang with us. The kids woke early and had breakfast and playtime, while Erick got ready to start his day with us too.

So what's to do when you're on vacation with your toddler? To visit Target and Ikea, or course! Erick intended to let Gabriel pick out his own toy, but he didn't seem overly attached to anything...except a simple ball.
Here's Gabriel showing he's not afraid to get in touch with his feminine side, while borrowing his cousin's pink headband.

Erick took me to Ikea, which is a really cool furniture/houseware store. Gabriel slept through most of it, but woke up in time to be powered up for lunch in their cafeteria, and even got the opportunity for some old hag to shove him out of her way with her shopping cart while waiting in line. Nice!

Now, Saturday was our long awaited day. The weather wasn't so great, and it rained a few times on us, but hey...who can't be excited about Disneyworld??

Once again, the kids fell asleep for a short while (1 1/2 hours for Gabriel--carried!), and they were on the go! With the exception of boredom from standing in line, I thought he was fairly well behaved, and enjoyed being on the rides.

Gabriel enjoyed Pirates of the Carribean, and even wanted to be one with his uncle!

After a long day of Disneyworld, we were all tired and ready to order in food for the grand finale. Auntie Ellen brought out a cookies and cream icecream birthday cake for the birthday boy!

It was a great ending to a fantastic day. Again, we were all whooped and eventually got to bed to be ready for our flight back home the next day.

I was a bit skeptical on how travelling with Gabriel would be, but I have to admit it was a lot of fun. Not easy by any means, but memorable and enjoyable. On top of that, Gabriel got some bonding time with his cousin...

...as did I!!

Thank you, everyone, for making Gabriel's birthday so special! We had a wonderful time! It's always so nice to be with the family!

This Movie Is A Great Lesson For Life

2008-01-21T10:10:00.000-05:00

I have a new favorite movie. Have you had the chance to see "Meet The Robinsons" yet? If not, you need to. I purchased this movie for Gabriel a couple of weeks ago, and finally had the chance to watch it this past weekend. Between the theme song from Matchbox 20, and the movie itself, I love the message this movie gives: "Keep Moving Forward." After all, we all have room to grow; and I can relate...

Little Wonders

Let it go,
let it roll right off your shoulder.
Don’t you know
the hardest part is over?
Let it in,
let your clarity define you.
In the end
we will only just remember how it feels.

Our lives are made
in these small hours.
These little wonders,
these twists & turns of fate.
Time falls away,
but these small hours,
these small hours still remain.

Let it slide,
let your troubles fall behind you.
Let it shine
until you feel it all around you.
And I don’t mind
if it’s me you need to turn to.
We’ll get by,
it’s the heart that really matters in the end.

Our lives are made
in these small hours.
These little wonders,
these twists & turns of fate.
Time falls away,
but these small hours,
these small hours still remain.

All of my regret
will wash away some how.
But I can not forget
the way i feel right now.

"Around here ... we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things ... and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths..." Walt Disney

I've Found My Way Back

2008-01-16T22:54:00.000-05:00

So, why you may ask? I ask myself this question almost every Sunday that I go. Well, let me count the ways...

Because I've realized that even during my darkest moments, you have always been there. Though I have chosen to stray so far, you continued to hold my hand and patiently waited for me to be ready to find my way back. It's because through all of my choices, I look at my life and realize that although not perfect, I am still so blessed with all I have been given. I realize I have never been alone, and that no matter what life may bring me, I can always find strength in you and trust that I will never endure anything on my own. I am so blessed and for that I am thankful.

It was as if my pastor clearly read my mind. This evening as I sat in the water before my baptismal with tears in my eyes, he looked at me and said, "...I think that God is telling you that he is pleased with you." But the most meaningful thing he said to me before I was lowered was a simple, "Welcome Home..." And as I felt the water surround me, I felt all of my pain and my past wash away and my life and faith renewed.

Christmas 2007

2008-01-16T22:41:00.000-05:00

Good morning, Mommy! I was looking forward to Christmas a little more this year. I'd been gearing Gabriel up and prepping him with stories and movies of Rudolph, Frosty, and most importantly Santa. We woke up Christmas morning, and started the day out by lounging in bed and cuddling. When we were finally ready to let our feet hit the floor, he was all about opening presents!

I think that Gabriel is still a bit young to understand Christmas, but he's certainly getting the hang of opening gifts. For the past week or two, he's been tearing open gifts on his own without my knowing. I'll be in the kitchen cooking or cleaning, and I will hear him excitedly shout, "Ooooh! Books! Cooooolll!" or whatever surprise he's managed to unwrap. I finally wised up and had to start to watch him like a hawk when he would near the tree. Luckily, the gifts he's opened are all his indeed. I have no idea how he knows which ones are the good ones to open.

As usual, Christmas was its hectic self. None of my siblings were able to make it home this year, which was a bit of a bummer. But, we did go to the in-laws and my parents' like we normally do. Before you knew it, Christmas had come and gone, and the house in disarray.

I don't know what it was, but I really wasn't much into the holiday this year. I enjoy shopping for the gifts and such, but I suppose that with all the rushing around, and then getting back to work the following day, it's a little hard to really enjoy it. I'm hoping that one year soon, we will be able to get away and hole up for the holidays. Just us, and enjoying sitting in one spot.

Matrix Karate

2007-12-23T13:39:00.001-05:00

Man, this is the kind of karate I need to learn!

Isn't He A Ham?!

2007-12-17T23:09:00.001-05:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

What was life really like before him? I never knew how one little person could make your life that much more meaningful and worthwhile.

Still when I put him to bed at night, I look at him in awe. Am I really a mother? It's so hard for me to believe sometimes. Did I really create this little life? I can't believe how beautiful how he is.

Then, I touch his face and and close my eyes. I truly am so blessed.

Let's Revisit My Old Blog

2007-12-15T23:31:00.000-05:00

I happened to stumble upon an old blog today, written about 3 1/2 years ago. This is a short list I compiled about things I would like to do before I'm 40.

Wednesday, June 23, 2004
9:03:15 PM EDT
Feeling Happy
Things I Would Like To Do Before I'm 40

Graduate from AFF--nope

Get down to 110 lbs. (and stay there)-- Yeah, right! Not after having a baby!!

Go Hang Gliding--Check!

Go White Water Rafting--Check!

Visit all of the places in the "Kokomo" song--So far I've accomplished Bahamas and Jamaica with the girls

Travel abroad (Spain, Greece, namely)--that will have to wait until Gabriel gets a little older

Revisit the Philippines--ditto

Finish the tattoo on my back--not yet

Find myself spiritually--I've finally found my home and have renewed faith!

Have my 10th Wedding Anniversary in Vegas (a really cheesy one with Elvis)--to come

Learn Spanish fluently--I forgot about this one

Spend a White Christmas in the mountains--planning in the next couple years maybe

Have a perfect little girl--how about a boy...that will do!

Be satisfied with myself!

Well, let's see...I can say that there are a few things I've done here. One thing I am most thrilled about is finally finding a church to call my home that I've learned to grow in. I've still lots to learn, but I've found lots of peace in this place, and have renewed faith. Actually, have probably found faith in Christ I didn't have before.

I've also realized that I will never be satisfied with myself. The biggest thing for me right now is that I am in a complete quandary with my job. I'm completely not happy and am at a loss at which direction to go. The real estate market is on hold for me at the moment, but I am beginning to feel a need for a more stable career. I keep thinking that I don't feel quite qualified for bigger and better things, and it's so frustrating.

You know that feeling of knowing that there is something big and great out there waiting for you? But for whatever reason, you just can't find it, or figure it out? I know I am capable of doing something great that is profitable and that I enjoy doing. I am not meant to be doing weird jobs and trying to stumble my way around at 30 years old, wondering what to do with my career. I enjoy my real estate, but there's gotta be something more stable for me. I'm capable of doing a great job, and succeeding, but I just can't figure out with what. And that...is frustrating me.

At times like this, I've learned to turn to prayer. A few weeks ago, our sermon was about making our move to make things happen. And then, also knowing that sometimes when we move too quickly, we fail to hear our instructions to slow down and allow things to happen. So, how do you know when to move and when to stand still?

Changes

2007-12-06T16:03:00.000-05:00

So, along with the change of seasons comes another change. Tomorrow will be my last day on site here at Carlton Place. I am not leaving Prudential, but will continue to keep my license to sell real estate on the side, and have in the meantime taken on a completely different position in my career.

I've accepted a position at Talent Tree as Branch Manager. I've actually already started working, and see that there is, again, lots for me to learn. I hate the feeling of not knowing what I'm doing in my job. Especially when I'm the boss.

I have mixed feelings about this new change. Although I am excited about being given the opportunity to do this with a decent pay, I am disappointed that I will temporarily be leaving the job I have enjoyed doing for 2 years. But when the market turns and it will be profitable financially for me, I plan to return full time and give it another go. For now, my focus is my new position...so wish me luck!

I Won't Be Quitting My Day Job

2007-11-01T00:35:00.000-04:00

I really suck at painting. And, it's so tedious, it irritates the hell out of me. So far, between Gabriel's bedroom and our hallway bathroom, I've painted 6 times in 2 weeks. First of all, I couldn't quite find the right shade of blue for Gabriel's room. Then, I reluctantly painted the bathroom green upon Kevin's request and ended up with a mossy puke green. Now, it's a a pistachio puke green.

I'm calling a professional painter tomorrow. And the bathroom will not be green. Screw this shit.

I Suck

2007-10-19T22:11:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Wow, I absolutely have no freaking will power. How in the hell did I end up with a new Apple Nano Ipod? I'm fiddling with this thing, and I can't figure out what the hell I'm doing. This may take me awhile.

Anyhow for now, I can take comfort in the fact that I chose this particular Ipod because a portion of my money is going towards the AIDS funds. Really.

Either that, or it was the only pink one they had.

Hi! I'm New Here!!

2007-10-08T01:14:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Since we had to put Silence down a couple of months ago, we've been missing her terribly. Kevin and I have been talking about dogs for quite awhile--and trying to decide what breed would be best for our household. For him, a good hunting partner was necessary. For me, I needed a good, patient dog who could tolerate a toddler and be Gabriel's best friend through the years. After considering a few breeds, we finally came to the conclusion that a trusty 'ol Lab was still the way to go.

One thing we knew for sure was that we wanted a female. We are pretty particular about the personality of a dog. I know that having another dog like Silence will probably never happen again, but we wanted to get as close to her as possible. My intention was to visit different litters and then pay for or at least put down a deposit on one until we got back from our Vegas trip.

After speaking with several different people and "interviewing" them, the ones we visited were considerably weeded out. The first we visited was located in Summerville, but at first sight, I knew she wasn't the one. I politely told the man that we were still looking and would consider her, and then we continued our trek on to Orangeburg.

Jerry Mount has been breeding and training hunting labs for over 30 years. As soon as we saw this particular litter we were smitten by looks alone. The next step was a little more time consuming, as there were SEVEN females in his litter! We watched them play, and took note of how they reacted being handled different ways. Most importantly, we watched to see how Gabriel interacted with each one, and how they reacted to him.

After much thought, we finally settled on the one little girl who did not dig, bark much, and most of all was the only one who did not jump on him.

I'm not exactly sure how this happened, but somehow Kevin agreed to bring her home that day, and I agreed...perplexed and wondering if I'd misunderstood-especially since he was the one who was set on not having a puppy before our trip!

So, it was fun bringing the new puppy home and then shopping for her last minute. It felt like bringing a new baby home again. I have to admit that although I like her and was happy to have a puppy, it suddenly felt very real that Silence was gone. I couldn't help but feel saddened that we were still missing her, and moving on. Actually, bringing home a new puppy only made me miss her more.

So, we've had Molly for a week now, and she is slowly growing on me. Kevin has already become very attached to her, as he is the one mostly caring for her since my hands are full enough. Gabriel enjoys her very much, and she seems to enjoy him as well. She definitely helps to make our household a bit crazier, but she has quickly become a part of the family. I still haven't completely attached, but I like her and I know that through the years she and Gabriel will have very fond memories together. To me, that's the most important thing and my number one desire for having a new dog. I have my son, and that is the only thing I need. Not only that, it's all I can handle!

I'm sure that with time, Molly will settle down and be more along the lines of what I'm looking for, personally. I don't know if she will ever be as wonderful as Silence, but what I can tell you is that she has some very large shoes to fill.

My Niece Is In Town!

2007-09-29T23:32:00.000-04:00

Erick and El usually go out of town somewhere cool for their anniversary, but because of the new baby, things have changed. I suppose it poses the problem of what to do with Isa, and then I guess the whole money situation can change a bit, too, with a baby. So, this year, they spent their anniversary week back home. Now, I know that sounds cool and all, but would you believe they spent it working on my mom and dad's patio? Fun fun!!

The cool thing is that every time they visit, it's always a mad dash, and I really don't get to see them or spend time with them. I guess it wasn't a whole lot different this time, because Erick was busy helping Dad, and I was working a lot myself. However, on my day off, we were finally able to all get together and do some hanging out.

Oh, long gone are the days of Charleston Sports Pub with my brother. Or, the fun times of being out all night long at Acme. Instead, we spent some quality family time with his family and Gabriel at Chuckie Cheese. It's really kind of cool that our kids are only 9 months apart. Right now, they are going through different stuff, but later on, they will probably have more in common and be more interested in doing stuff together. For now, it was fun watching them play simple games and enjoy the rides.

Gabriel was able to do a little bit more than Isa, since he's at least walking, but she was still willing to try and participate in the activities. Here they are tossing ping pong balls in some buckets, and trying to win tickets for prizes!

Here's Uncle Erick and Gabriel doing some male bonding time. Heeyyy...that's cheating! You can't use both hands!!

Gabriel climbed up into this thing, and I thought he was going to use the slide, but once he got to the top, he chickened out and crawled back down. Oh well, maybe next time....

And then, of course, you can't leave without dinner! A child's true main staple--pizza! After eating, we counted up the tickets and Gabriel scored himself some really cool plastic bugs.

It was actually a lot of fun to do stuff with the kids. It's by no means easy work, and I find myself becoming frustrated at times, but I can honestly say that I enjoy being a mom. It's a great thing to be able to watch your child enjoying themselves and their new experiences. Even cooler is when they have their cousins around to do things with them. I'm looking forward to when the kids are grown up, and they can look back at these pictures and treasure growing up together. I'm glad I have my family, too, to do this with!

Thanks for visiting, Erick and El! Disneyworld?

WARNING! THIS POST HAS GRAPHIC CONTENT

2007-09-20T00:37:00.000-04:00

**IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SEE GRAPHIC CONTENT, DO NOT READ THIS POST!!!**

Did you hear about the guy who got attacked by an alligator here at Short Stay? It was all over the news. They said it was the worst alligator attack here in SC. Did you know the details? Yes, he got attacked by an alligator. And he was in a pond. A secluded pond with warning signs. Snorkeling. Snorkeling in a pond with warning signs stating that there are alligators in the water.

I mean, duh. Hello?!

Gabriel Loves Animals

2007-09-19T23:45:00.001-04:00

Gabriel is just like his mommy; he loves animals. A lot of his first words were of animal names and sounds. Here is my little boy, who is quickly growing up. He loves animals!

Jamaica Girls' Trip 2007

2007-09-19T22:28:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, I made it back in one piece. Our first annual girls' trip was indeed, a success. I met Anna and Rachel in the Atlanta airport, with Rachel flying in from Charlotte. The flight was fairly short, and we were anxious to get vacation started.

Speaking of "anxious to get vacation started," I must say that we started out on a bit of the wrong foot. First of all, when we finally got through customs in Montego Bay, we hopped anxiously onto our bus, ready to see our hotel and get checked in. We were graciously greeted by sitting in our bus for half an hour, wondering where our stupid driver was. When he finally decided to grace us with his presence, we were introduced to the crowded, narrow, and crazy driving of Jamaica. Not only that, but the driver and another passenger were bickering back and forth over his tardiness. All I could think of was him jumping into the back of the bus and strangling us.

After checking in, was the fiasco of figuring out what the damned number was to use our calling card so that we could all check in with our hubbies to let them know we were alive. Cell phone service didn't work, and the instructions to using the phone card failed to give us the 800 number to dial out. No worries, we'll just use the internet service to figure it out. That is...if you have the patience for their reeeeaaallllly slllloooooow dialup service. Twenty minutes wasn't even long enough to load the first page. You damned impatient, spoiled Americans...

After we finally figured out the whole phone thing and checked in, everything improved from there on. We started our next day bright and early to visit Mayfield Falls. This was not at all what I had expect...in a good way. For starts, our driver, "Indian," was excellent. Very friendly and eager to teach us of Jamaica, he did an outstanding job. Next was our fantastic tour guide who took us through the falls. I guess I was sort of under the impression that we would be hiking up "something" to look at waterfalls. I had no idea that we would be hiking *up the actual waterfalls*. Now, I am not exactly crazy about water, but I am so glad that we did this excursion. It was not at all "touristy" and we were the only ones on this guide. Mayfield falls is very peaceful and beautiful, and our guide Dennis was happy to show us some really cool stuff that we never would have found on our own. He even showed us some really cool hiding spots behind the falls where we were able to take cool pictures of...

Another cool excursion we did was to go ziplining above the jungle in Montpelier. It was a bit of a tiring climb, but well worth it. I was surprised that Anna agreed to do this one, but I think she was glad to do it. The crew was witty and fun, and the experience was memorable.

Here's a pic of our bungalow. I wish I'd taken more pics of the inside, but take my word for it. They were well done. This is the cool swim up bar...that we never used. It was neat, but I guess it would have been cooler if we'd actually used it. Their cocktails were so strong and some so gross that they even gave Rachel goosebumps! LOL!! Here's the rasta guy that was not only a contortionist and a fire dancer. He was also our limbo instructor...and I won!

Aside from our excursions, we mostly just hung around our resort and relaxed, which was really the main purpose of our trip. With jobs, babies, and husbands, I thought that we were all due for some unwind girly time. I think we need to remember that aside from a mommy and a wife, we're still just us, too. Hey, we're all entitled to a little ME time, right?

I did thoroughly enjoy our trip, and hope that we can make this an annual thing. But as always, I was missing my boy and eager to get home to him. It's always nice to get away sometimes, but it's also nice to come back to the ones you love....

2007-09-11T00:02:00.000-04:00

...that makes me so very sad to hear...

I am praying for strength for you both, and for God to show you in which way it is His will for you to go.

Goodbye 20's; Hello 30's

2007-09-10T10:49:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Happy Birthday to me! Happy Birthday to me! I'm oollld and moldy, Happy Birthday to me!

I worked on my birthday, but ditched at 2:30. I had some quick errands to run and dropped off the baby before heading home to shower and get ready. I really hate parties for myself, so I asked for something low key and intimate. Kevin was happy to comply, and had some friends join us for dinner and cocktails downtown at Carolina's. I think I've written about Carolina's before, but I chose this restaurant for the dessert. Although I thoroughly enjoyed my crabcakes and aligot potatoes, I really look forward to the pecan brittle basket with fresh fruit. Not only that, but I can really tear up some baked goat cheese with greens. YUM!

Following dinner were cocktails at Mercato's. By then, I had a splitting headache and was exhausted, so I was home and in bed by 2 a.m. Damn, I am getting old.

One big thing that I really wanted was to celebrate my birthday with my family, so Sunday was the "family celebration" day. Kevin and I picked up Gabriel, and headed off to the aquarium downtown.

This was actually Gabriel's second time at the aquarium, but he was only 6 months old the first time he visited, and I doubt he remembered. He was actually very well behaved and loved looking at all the exhibits. The thing he enjoyed the most, though, were the large maccaw parrots at the Amazon exhibit. He kept asking to go back and say hello to them.

It was a really nice day Sunday, so after the aquarium, Kevin and I sat in the sunshine at the park and watched Gabriel do what little boys do. Play in the dirt and look for bugs. He loves bugs!

The afternoon was very relaxing and enjoyable, and to be quite honest, I was more excited about the family time over hanging out downtown. Well, then again, I can always appreciate a good dinner...It was a good birthday.

My Birthday Present To Me

2007-09-07T23:35:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Ho hum...it's th eve of my 30th birthday. I've been pretty good about restraining from excessive spending of money. Oh wait...that was until my last purchase of the Sirius Stiletto. Well, anyway, that was some time ago. Oh wait, and then I did purchase some new luggage that I was badly in need of after the closing with my sister in law. Hmmm...okay, well I really need this one.

I went to Best Buy today to burn some time while waiting to pick up my lunch order from Wild Wings. I was just on my way out of the store, thinking of how I was so proud of myself for leaving empty handed. Perhaps I'd thought such a thing too soon, because I decided to do a quick run through the camera section. Wrong move.

Aren't I going on my girls' trip in a week? And won't we be around lots of water? Isn't my Sony getting a little bulky? Yes, I really am in need of a waterproof 7.1 Olympus digital camera. Oh, how convenient, it's nice and small too!

Ugh, I'm seriously having buyer's remorse. But damn! I'm so excited about my new camera!!

Let's Get Creative!

2007-09-05T17:02:00.001-04:00

Sussex Great Room
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, I've left First Coast Homes, and am now working with Rex Thompson Homes, Carlton Place in Goose Creek. It's a pretty community; lots of trees, which is rare to find in a new community, and pretty hills.

I can tell already that this builder is different than the one I worked with before. For starters, we actually get to decorate and choose all the selections in our model home. My partner, Kathy, and I got through choosing our flooring, cabinets, and countertops. Next, was the fun part. Paint colors! I wanted to do something kind of contemporary and different. With my own home, I have really been limited with what I could choose. Kevin and I have very contrasting tastes, and since he's the one with the money who can actually pay for all the stuff, I've sort of left the decisions up to him. But, Kathy was more than willing to make this a collaborative effort with something we both liked, and thought would make the house look good. I'm so excited!!

I decided to go with the espresso brown and taupe in the living room. So far, I think it looks good, but I can't say that the owner is too thrilled at this point. He called Kathy to jokingly ask what this s**t was in the model? We both reassured him to give us time to get things together, and it would come along nicely.

I left the master bedroom to Kathy's liking, since she let me have free reign with the great room. She decided that a robin blue bedroom would compliment the downstairs nicely. I must admit, it turned out a bit brighter than we anticipated, but perhaps once we can get the decorations and things in (chocolate brown?), it will tone it down. I think it looks cool so far with the tray ceiling though.

So, what do you think? Stay tuned to see how the house turns out!

We're Not Criminals; We're STARS!

2007-09-05T11:07:00.000-04:00

WTF?! As you can see, I've been awfully busy at work.

Philippines Pageant

2007-08-28T16:34:00.000-04:00

What an appropriate question for this contestant!

Skydive Walterboro!

2007-08-27T13:19:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

My godsister, Jen, recently graduated from Pharmacy school. As a graduation gift, her friend's dad purchased her a skydiving jump to celebrate. She thought it would be fun to get a little group together to jump, and who do you think she might invite? Me! I, of course, wanted to join, but due to finances, had to decline. She wasn't letting that one go so easily. As my big 3-0 birthday present, she offered me my jump. She only had to ask once!

Sunday, I met with everyone at my old stomping grounds, Skydive Walterboro. It was nice to see some familiar faces, I'd not seen in over 2 years, since becoming pregnant. It seems there had been quite a bit pregnancies going about the dropzone about the same time I found out I was expecting.

Since I hadn't jumped in awhile, and was not interested in a refresher course, I decided to do a tandem to get my feet wet. I was curious to see if I would catch the "bug" again and be ready to get back into it. Mike was my jump master, and Nick was the videographer.

I didn't start out nervous, but on the way up, the 'ol familiar butterflies began. It didn't help that Mike thought it would be fun to psych me out and betting me on how low we could open. I asked for 5500, he says 4000. We'll see... Of course, the door flying open with the loud, cold air is nerve racking, and then actually getting your feet out to exit is the hardest part for me. But once we were out, it's pure fun.

I won't write much more; I'll just let the pictures do the talking. I will say this, though, when I say that I get motion sickness easily, it's not a good idea to do hard turns under canopy as a joke. Really.

I think next jump I'm going to see Rachel at Skydive Carolina. I've not quite caught the "bug" to get into this again, but I'd like to try. I still enjoy it, but perhaps my priorities have changed? Or maybe, I just didn't enjoy throwing up. We'll see...

Isa's Christening

2007-08-19T16:58:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by erickpineda527.

I know it's been awhile (again) since I've posted, but here's a quick update. My family was in town for the weekend to watch my little niece, Isa, get christened at Holy Conception. It was really quite small, just family and very few close friends.

Afterwards, Erick and El treated us all out to some very yummy Gullah Cuisine in Mount Pleasant. It was pretty cool seeing all of our little kiddies running around and making me feel old. It's weird to think that the little munchkins running about are ours. Following lunch was opening presents at my mom's.

The trip was quick, but as always, enjoyable!

Birthday Trip?

2007-08-19T16:53:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Did I mention I was going to Jamaica for my 30th birthday? Hmmm...I'm not so sure anymore...

You Never Cease To Amaze Me

2007-07-14T19:36:00.000-04:00

Gabriel's gotten to the point to where he refuses to sit in his highchair anymore. This morning while I fed him spoonfuls of grits and picked up the kitchen, he wandered back and forth between the living room and kitchen holding onto his sippy cup and eating. On his way back into the kitchen, his cup was no longer in his hands.

"Uh oh, where's your cup?" I asked him. He responded with pointing to the living room.

"Well, go get it. Where's your cup?" I continued.

Gabriel started to pull his diaper bag out of the corner and began to rummage about in it. He reaches in, proudly pulls his cup out and declares, "Ta-Daaa!!"

How do you learn this stuff? Amazing.

New Toy

2007-07-08T13:47:00.000-04:00

I've been going back and forth trying to decide if I should purchase an iPod or a Satellite radio for my car. iPod's are cool, because then I can just download any song I want. But then, sometimes I don't know what songs I want to hear, and just want to hear a certain genre. Hmmm...decision, decisions...Suddenly, it dawned on me. Is there such a thing as a mp3 player AND satellite radio? Wouldn't that be cool? So, I googled it and viola! The Sirius Stilleto!

I went to Best Buy to check one out and learn more about it. The Stiletto itself is $250, and then I would need a car kit-another $50. I wasn't quite sure if I was ready to shell out the moolah, so I just figured I would wait it out...

until...I ran across a brand new Stiletto and car kit on Flea-Bay, that someone bought without knowing it didn't work with a mac. After a little bit of wheeling and dealing, we agreed to $190, out the door.

I got my tracking number today, and should be recieving it about Wednesday. I'm interested to see how it works...if it works. I hope it does?

Yay!!

Happy Birthday, America!

2007-07-07T17:16:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I don't typically get into celebrating the Fourth of July. I don't know why. I just typically go with the flow, and do whatever. This year, I had my heart set on doing some family stuff outside and enjoying the sunshine.

The weather couldn't have been more perfect. Plenty of warm sunshine and bright blue skies made it an ideal day to hang out in the pool. Kevin has been working hard outside, resodding the backyard and cleaning up. So, I lotioned up Gabriel and hung out poolside with his daddy. Nothing fancy-sandwiches, chips, and cold drinks were the food for the afternoon. But most importantly, some family time that we've been way past due for
I've quit working at the dojo, and have started enjoying more days off. That means more time for me to play with my son who is growing quickly. I've come to find that as he gets older, he is getting to be more fun. More active, but more fun, nonetheless.

Isn't that a shame? With Kevin and I both working off of our telephones often, it seems Gabriel has learned the habit. Here is he gabbing to whomever; business call, I presume. "Buy! Buy! Sell! Sell!" It's so funny the things that kids learn.

I had to put this picture up. Sometimes I think I can see his Uncle Ricky in him. Ricky, does this picture remind you of one you had of yourself, growing up? :) (Think purple popsicle and pink lemonade)

Goodbye

2007-06-14T23:16:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Goodnight, sweet Silence. You will be missed...

Myrtle Beach Spring Rally 2007

2007-05-21T23:00:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I was definitely due for some vacay time. Anna flew up from Georgia with her daughter, Ava, to join me and Kevin at Myrtle Beach's 2007 Bike Rally. Her husband, Chris, trailered their bike, and wouldn't be in til later that evening.

It's been awhile since Gabriel and Ava since last saw each other, so we spent the afternoon allowing the kids to socialize and have a little playdate.

Gabriel's been sick with a fever, and had barely eaten all week, so I took him into the doctor. It seems his cold had given him a double ear infection, and he was promptly put onto some antibiotics. Despite his feeling crappy, he socialized a little bit, but was clingy and whiny for the most part. Poor thing, no wonder he hasn't been eating. I had no idea he had an ear infection-I'm glad I brought him in!

Later that evening, Anna and I left the kids at our parents' and headed downtown for a girls' night out. It was a pretty kicked back evening of catching up, eating, and cocktails. I'd stayed out a little later than I'd intended, and didn't get home til 2 a.m. Luckily, Kevin had already picked the baby up, and they were both soundly tucked into bed. It didn't take long before I was right there too. Until, 5:30 rolled around...

The next day, we all met up with Ron and his girlfriend, Becky, to head off to Myrtle Beach. The weather was unusually cool, but this was also the first year we didn't get rained on.

Our first night there, was extremely low key. We had a bit of a late start and only had time to eat dinner and grab a drink. We checked into our rooms and I planned on a quick power nap to rejuvinate myself for a night out. So, at 8 p.m. I laid down, and caught a couple of zzz's...like til 8:30 a.m. the next morning. Doh! There goes one of our two nights in Myrtle Beach!

Here's a picture of me the next morning, refreshed, and ready to start our day.

The day mostly consisted of riding, shopping, walking around, eating, and drinking of course. I've been wanting to visit this restaurant for awhile now, called Dicks' Last Resort. It's pretty cool...sorta. Pretty much, it's a restaurant where people are rude to you and put hats on unsuspecting patrons with crude insults. Ron was the lucky winner of being picked on by our waitress this time. Our waitress was particularly a smartass, but it was all in fun. She had us all laughing with her shitty service. I can't believe we paid for this. If you're offended easily, this isn't the place for you to go. Before we left, she even counted out our bill in front of us and called us cheapasses for not leaving her a big enough tip. After demanding $20 more, Ron's friend, Andy gave in and coughed up the extra moola.

You can't go to Bike Week without getting a tattoo or piercing! I opted to get my navel repierced, since I had to take it out during my pregnancy.

Here's a cool bike that Anna I spotted. It's got a leather Louis Vuitton seat on it! Yeah, I can see myself on this one...

Finally, our ride home was absolutely perfect. The sun was shining, and the weather had warmed. I was quite anxious to get back to Gabriel. Apparently, Gabriel had a little surprise waiting for me. Once I got home, he greeted me by walking up to me!! Yay!!

A great weekend with a perfect ending. Thanks, Anna and Chris for making the trek to hang! It was a good time! Maui?

New Haircut

2007-05-16T00:05:00.000-04:00

Oh, by the way...I forgot to mention that I cut my hair. Big time. My hair has been long for the past 7 years, but this was the longest it's ever been-to my waist! I've been considering getting a cut.

I think I like it, and may very well keep it short for awhile. Gotta shake things up a bit! Change is good!!

Here's a little hint:

If you tell me I can't...I will. And even shorter than I'd intended on purpose...because I can.

Here's what it looks like. And here's me working oh-so-hard at my new job.

I Love You

2007-05-15T23:44:00.001-04:00

I've found the love of my life! Isn't he cute?!

My baby's sick too. I think he has a cold and I believe his low-grade temp is from some new canines he's working on. I think his 4th molar is on its way out as well. He's not really eaten the past 3 days, and he's very clingy and grouchy. Poor thing...I hope he feels better before I leave out of town.

Mother's Day

2007-05-13T22:52:00.000-04:00

Well, here it is...another Mother's Day. I can't say that it was anything "spectacular." I was hoping I would be able to sleep in and be spoiled by Kevin taking care of the baby this morning, but I wasn't. I went through my routine of getting up with Gabriel and giving him breakfast, changing his clothes, playing with him...I had a ton to do today. I thought maybe Kevin would watch him so I could run errands. Nope, Gabriel was getting tired, and Kevin doesn't know how to get him to nap, so I had to put him to sleep. By the time he awoke, I still hadn't gotten ready, then it was time for lunch, then it was time to get ready for the in-laws' cookout.

Holy crap, it's Mother's Day and Kevin's back is hurting. So, my meal was abruptly cut short because my toddler is all over the house and his dad can't keep up. I'm exhausted, and frustrated, and disappointed. But on my way home from visiting his Lolo and Lola, he's asleep in the backseat.

I look back at him and sigh. My God, I can't believe how absolutely beautiful my child is. I am so crazy in love with this little guy, and it dawns on me, that there is nothing disappointing about today. I didn't get a clean house, or a day of luxury, but sleeping quietly in the backseat is my gift. For being a mom, I've had my reward all along.

(now, if I can just resist putting him in the bed with me...)

Playing Catch Up

2007-04-20T22:57:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

So, as usual, it's been awhile since I've posted. I've been really caught up with work, and trying to juggle everything else. You know, the same old sob story.

Anyway, Gabriel is really growing. I've found that he is absolutely all boy. He tires easily of his toys at home, but put him outside, and he can play in the dirt all day. I'm not too keen on him sitting in the dirt, so I thought that a sandbox might be fun for him to have at home. It doesn't quite keep his attention like nice, free dirt, but it works.

Easter was nice. The family had church in the morning, and then we met at my parents' for lunch. The past handful of years, we've spent Easter at Kevin's parents' house for lunch, but this year they were in the mountains. Mom and Dad had quite a spread for the 4 1/2 of us, but after a couple more days, nothing went to waste. Following lunch, I finally had time to sit Gabriel down to show him what the Easter Bunny had brought for him.
I considered hiding his Easter eggs, but I don't think we've quite gotten to that point yet. For now, he was content to bounce them across the floor and declare, "Ball!" Sure, for now, we'll call it a ball.

Kevin and I celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary, and then a week and a half later, Kevin celebrated his 43rd birthday. My parents were nice enough to keep Gabriel on both of those Friday nights, so that we could go out and sleep in. I've finally loosened up some on leaving Gabriel overnight. It's nice to be able to get out of the house and feel like a normal human being again.

Cooper River Bridge Run 2007

2007-04-02T22:12:00.001-04:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, I finally made it onto the bridge. I told myself I would run the first bridge run right after having Gabriel, but who was I fooling? Having a baby in February, and running a 10k 2months later was an absolutely ridiculous goal. Obviously, little did I know how worn out my mind and body would be as a new mother.

Now that he's a year old, I was determined to get onto the bridge this year, and I did. Thank goodness. Okay, so perhaps not any spectacular records being broken, but I was out there doing something I enjoyed for ME, and for once, I'm beginning to feel human. I'm beginning to feel more like me again.

I don't know if I'm going to keep up with running as the weather heats up. If I continue to run the bridge, that will mean I'll have to get up earlier to attempt to beat the sun up there. Once the sun is up, you'd better be off that thing, or at least pretty close to being done. Otherwise, I would imagine it's torture. I'm not sure how long I will stay committed to this, but time will tell.

Rockstar

2007-03-21T22:04:00.000-04:00

I'm through with standin' in line
at clubs I'll never get in
It's like the bottom of the ninth
and I'm never gonna win
this life hasn't turned out
quite the way I want it to be
(Tell me what you want)...

...I need a credit card that's got no limit
And a big black jet with a bedroom in it
Gonna join the mile high club
At thirty-seven thousand feet..

...I'm gonna trade this life for fortune and fame
I'd even cut my hair and change my name...

Hey, hey, I wanna be a rockstar
Hey, hey, I wanna be a rockstar

...I'm gonna dress my ass
with the latest fashion
Get a front door key to the Playboy mansion...

...'Cause we all just wanna be big rockstars
And live in hilltop houses driving fifteen cars
The girls come easy and the drugs come cheap
we'll all stay skinny 'cause we just won't eat
And we'll hang out in the coolest bars
in the VIP with the movie stars...

...Hey, hey, I wanna be a rockstar
Hey, hey, I wanna be a rockstar...

I've been digging this song lately. I mean, hell...don't we all just wanna be rockstars?

I Got Hired!

2007-03-09T21:28:00.000-05:00

Well, First Coast Homes hired me on to be their Community Specialist at Stoney Creek. It's a pretty nice neighborhood, and very close to home. Today I stopped by Prudential's main office to complete paperwork on switching offices. I know this is kind of funny to say, but one of the things that made me hesitate on moving forward with new construction is my very awesome office and broker. I know I'll still be talking to some of them on a fairly regular basis, but I have to admit that we have the rockin'est office, by far. Anyway, cool people don't pay the bills, so I happily accepted the offer to switch divisions.

So far there is tons for me to learn. The paperwork is different, and I keep having to remind myself that I'm not in resales. Hopefully by the next couple of weeks, I'll have the swing of things and I'll feel more comfortable with being left alone on site.

Last weekend I braved running the bridge since my last bridge run 2 years ago. This was actually the first time I'd been on the new bridge, and I think I've convinced myself that I've really got lots of work to do. LOTS. The incline on this bridge is a bitch, and being totally out of shape doesn't help the situation. I'm sure I won't be running record time, but who cares. I'm there.

Anyway, I'm excited to see how I'll do in New Homes. Much to learn, but still excited.

No, I Haven't Fallen Off The Face Of The Planet

2007-03-02T22:11:00.000-05:00

"So, where the hell has Cher been?" you may ask. To be honest, I've been working on finding more time for me. I've been trying to find myself again, and let "mommy" and "housekeeper" and "wife" take a break for a minute. Where the hell is Cher? Who the hell am I anymore? That's what I've been focusing on these past couple of weeks.

Now that Gabriel's a little older, I've been more comfortable with leaving him with the grandparents a little more. In the meantime, I've been going to the gym and trying to get back into working out. On top of that, I've signed up for the 5k Flowertown Run Festival this month, and two weeks later running the 10k Cooper River Bridge Run. I don't know what I'm getting myself into, seeing it's been quite awhile since I've ran, but I've got a little bit of time to train. Hell, I see it as more time for me. Even though I know I won't be making breaking record time on my runs, I'm happy to know that I'm planning something for myself...and something that I'd enjoyed pre-baby, pre-marriage, pre-identity-tied-to-someone-else.

I've also decided to pursue a bit of a directional change in my career. Nothing big, but hopefully something that will work out with my hours I am willing (or not willing) to put into my job. We'll see have how everything pans out. Whatever happens, it will all work itself out. In the end, it always does.

Happy Birthday, Gabriel!

2007-02-14T13:13:00.001-05:00

Well, I'm finally getting around to posting my entry for Gabriel's birthday. My cable modem is still not working, so I suppose I'll just suck it up and do the dialup thing here at work. Well, as you all know, Gabriel celebrated his first birthday February 2nd. Since Gabriel was around 6 months old, I'd been excited about planning his very first birthday party. But now that it's finally here, I find myself scratching my head and wondering where the time has gone to. It's hard to believe that a year ago, I brought home a tiny little 7 lb'er and I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. Now, my baby is a year old, and I'm much more confident with caring for him. Hell, it's actually enjoyable now. Lolo asked me months ago to promise him the privelege of making his birthday cake. Of course, I was more than happy for him to do so. I decided to go with a Curious George theme for his party. My plan is to change his room to a classic children's theme when his crib converts to a toddler bed, and it only seemed appropriate to choose good 'ol George to grace his birthday party.
Auntie Panty Rachel drove from Florida to make it to the party, and showed up early along with his Auntie Jen to help decorate and prepare food. While blowing up his balloons on the helium tank, Jen even suffered a minor casualty of bleeding cuticles from tying off the balloon. Ahhhh, the labor of love...
Gabriel got a lot of really nice presents. He's been playing with all of his toys, which are still scattered about the living room. One of my favorite gifts he recieved, though, is a star in the constellation of Orion named after him, from his Aunt T. The other night after work, I looked up at the sky, and pointed out Orion to Gabriel. Kind of a neat gift to have a star registered in his name for eternity. Gabriel Shawn. He'll learn to appreciate that someday when he's a little older.
I think that this one is one of Gabriel's favorites. I found this Radio Flyer rocket long before his birthday, and knew right away this was what I wanted to get him for his first birthday. He was actually kind of scared of it when I first gave it to him, but after watching the other kids play with it, he quickly warmed up to the idea of having his first ride-on toy. Now, he sits on it, and waits for me to push him around the house. Maybe soon he'll figure out that he doesn't need me for the rocket to go.

Well, so this concludes my first year with my baby, who is now no longer considered a baby. I now have a little toddler, and am waiting to approach his terrible two's. I'm sure each year from here on out will fly by just as this one. But no matter how old he gets, I'll always think of him as my baby.

Long Delay

2007-02-11T04:33:00.000-05:00

Sorry, guys. I know you all have been waiting to hear about Gabriel's birthday. My modem is down, and I've yet to take it to the phone company to replace (if that's truly the problem). I can't seem to motivate myself to upload on a dialup computer at work. Right now, I'm working off of my wireless card, that I've finally just started using tonight. You see, my laptop has been acting crazy, and come to find out, I thought I had virus protection, which after a YEAR, found out I don't. So, I've finally gotten my computer cleaned up, and it's working a lot better now. On top of that, I'm sick as hell. I've been sick for 3 days now with body aches, fever, chills, and a freaking sore throat that's painful enough to make you cry.

Mom and Dad were gracious enough to stay Friday night to take care of Gabriel and get up with him in the morning so I could rest. They also spent Saturday here to play with him and care for him while I slept. I'm sure they'll be here later on Sunday too. Of course, he slept fine Friday night when I had help, but here I am now at 4:30 a.m. because he woke up calling me and wanting to converse all night. When I told him it was time for bed and insisted he go to bed on his own, he completely threw a tantrum. I tried to be a nice mommy and sit in the rocker while he threw he stomped his feet and yelled, but come on...I'm really not in the mood for this. So, I hugged him, bid him goodnight (and watched him freak out), and left the room. He threw a fit for a whole 5 minutes--TOPS. I should have left the room a long time ago; more like an hour ago.

It's actually kind of neat. I'm realizing that Gabriel is really understanding what you're saying now. The other day, he waved and said, "bye-bye!" It was only once, but I think my jaw dropped. And then not too long after that, he was playing with his sneakers, and I said, "shoes!" only to hear him repeat me. He will shake his head "no" if you ask him if he wants his milk, water, or food, or whatever. But, if you ask and he does want it, he'll hold his hands out. Tonight as he threw his tantrum, I told him to lay down and he would sit down and cry. I asked him to drink his water and go to bed, and he actually crawled over to his sippy cup and threw it out of his crib in protest. I know he was throwing a tantrum, but I was still impressed that he was comprehending me. Amazing.

Anyway, he's asleep and I need to be doing the same. I hope he'll sleep in tomorrow, but not likely. I hope my parents get here tomorrow after church--and fast.

I'll try to see if I can upload some pics on this wireless card; I just don't have the patience for a slow connection. But I promise...they'll be up soon.

Time to go to bed!

Vegas, Baby!

2007-01-22T22:51:00.001-05:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, I had only been home from Orlando for a few days, and then it was time to jump on the plane again for a little trip. This time, it was a childless adult trip.

Kevin's best friend since high school had his 43rd birthday coming up, and his wife Tracie decided to treat him (US!) to Vegas to celebrate.

Our flight was a little delayed, setting us into Vegas a little later than expected, but nonetheless we arrived in one piece. Tracie also surprised Roddy with a limo to pick us up and take us to the Mirage. Here's our driver, Luis, giving the birthday boy some champagne to sip on until we reached our destination.

Now, I'm not too crazy on gambling, but Kevin handed me over $10 to use on the slots to keep me occupied while the the guys hit the machines. I reluctantly picked out a 2 cent slot machine, and after a few spins, heard the good 'ol cha-chings. What did I win? I had no idea, I couldn't figure it out. So, Tracie and I waited patiently for the credits to quit adding up, and found out I made $65! Not bad! After a a bit more of playing, I quit at $100 ahead. By the end of the night, I had lost my $100....in the form of a pair of Donald J. Pilner shoes. Har har!

The next night was Roddy's birthday dinner, and we all took a cab to a fantastic upscale steak house, called Ruth's Chris. If you haven't been, you really need to. It is DE-LI-CIOUS. Dinner was perfect, and the evening was great. That is, until we stepped off the cab back to our hotel, and I realized that I had forgotten my wallet underneat my chair at the restaurant. We immediately called the restaurant, and were told that my wallet was found and being safely held in the safe. No more than 15 minutes after we had left the restaurant, we were back to pick up my wallet. Kevin went out to get grab it for me, and I quickly thumbed through it, knowing that everything would be just fine. No such luck. Some shithead had stolen the cash out of it! I called immediately while still in the cab to speak with the manager. To make the long story short, the director of operations showed up at my hotel later that evening, telling me that surveillance cameras had caught the hostess pocketing my cash after the server had turned in my wallet to her. Needless to say, she was terminated and I had my cash back, plus $100 gift certificate for the inconvenience. Shweet! He was very apologetic and embarassed, and I accepted graciously. The night certainly was better after that, even after I lost $100 at the roulette table. Doh!

So, what else did we do? Our birthday present to Roddy was tickets to Cirque Du Soleil's "O." Man, I love those shows. It was really great. I don't know if I liked it better than Mystere, but it was certainly impressive. Let's see, we also visited Old Las Vegas, which was okay, but probably would have been better at night. And, shopped, gambled, ate, ate, and ate. What else is there to do?

So, here I am back home. I had tons of fun. Probably more fun that the first time Kevin and I went after 9/11. After 2 weeks of travelling and having fun, I'm not quite ready to be back in the real world again. But there is one thing that I was anxious to get to. You know who.... :) I'm so glad to see my baby again!

Off To Visit Isa!

2007-01-16T23:53:00.003-05:00

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Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, I must say that I am pretty damned proud of myself. I decided to brave taking Gabriel out onto his first airplane trip to visit Erick and El's new little girl, Isabella....alone. Besides a little bout of a temper tantrum due to a lack of naptime, Gabriel actually did fairly well. Now, don't get me wrong. It wasn't easy, but it certainly wasn't as bad as I thought it might be. Here we are before we board our plane to head to Orlando. Pre-tantrum. Pre-passengers turning around and glaring at you. Whatever, get over it...

2007-01-16T23:53:00.001-05:00

You know, I really noticed a difference with Erick and El. When Gabriel was first born, they both looked so awkward and nervous holding him. Now that they've gotten used to holding their newborn, I see that they actually look more natural interacting and playing with him. Attaboy, guys! See, you just had to get your hands a little dirty first! El and I both had to hop into the showers before we left to go meet Rachel, Ricky, and Donna for brunch, so Erick had baby duty x2.

baby 439
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Here they are in deep conversation before Gabriel realizes that I'm standing there, and then starts freaking out again cause he wants me to pick him up. Brat.

2007-01-16T23:52:00.005-05:00

I loved sitting in the back seat with the babies. It's so awesome to see the cousins meet. Gabriel took very well to Isa, and even tried to comfort her when she cried. Either that, or shove her head into the couch cushions. So, did I mention this was a dual trip? Oh, yeah....Rachel's birthday was this past weekend, too, and Ricky and Donna were also down from Atlanta. So, we were all able to hang out, meet the new addition, and celebrate Rach's 37th! Sorry I don't have more pics, but I got a little slack with keeping up with my camera.

baby 447
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

2007-01-16T23:52:00.003-05:00

Here's a one of Isa getting back at him for being a bully. Sweet kid.

baby 430
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

2007-01-16T23:52:00.001-05:00

Here's Erick and El's livingroom that I had to rearrange and clear out to keep Gabriel's busy hands off of. Erick's whipping out his camera to catch a shot of Gabriel's unintentional plumber's crack as Isa looks on. (P.S. Anna, those are the jeans you bought him. I think we have a little more growing room left in them... ;-) ).

baby 435
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

It was a great visit meeting the new Pineda addition. Looking forward to when both kids are running around.

Daddy's Boy

2007-01-16T23:51:00.001-05:00

baby 411
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I just had to post this one. This was one of Kevin's Christmas presents to Gabriel, and I couldn't wait to dress him up and take him to work.

His daddy is so proud. Future blackbelt in the making!!

Gabriel's First Christmas

2006-12-27T00:33:00.001-05:00

My brother, Erick, has been on my ass because I've been slack about updating my blogger. Yeah, yeah, yeah...I know. My hands have been full; so sue me. Besides who wants to hear about my everyday routines, blah blah blah?

Santa left me a teddy bear!
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Well, since Christmas has come, I actually have something somewhat interesting to talk about. I 've been pretty excited about this Christmas. As you probably know, it's Gabriel's first one, so I made sure to have my video camera and digital camera fully charged up and ready to go. Gabriel was up and ready to go at his usual time, but instead of giving him his bottle and putting him back into bed with us, I was ready to get our Christmas morning started. I set Gabriel down on the floor, and he immediately went straight for the big teddy bear that Santa left him. Notice his blue velvet stocking with the bling bling "G" on it, too. Just for the record, I didn't pick that. I picked a cute red and white stocking with a choo choo train, but Gabriel was set on this one. So, this one came home with us, and was filled with by Santa early Christmas morning, as we all slept soundly.

2006-12-27T00:33:00.000-05:00

Whoah...cool toys!
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Ahhhh....don't you love spending lots of money on nice clothes and cool toys? And then the ones they like are the cheap little plastic ones that you barely spent anything on? Gabriel really likes these little water squirting bath toys that Rachel put in my gift basket. I also happened to get him a little blue dinosaur one that he loves. I can surround him with all these cool dancing, singing, light-flashing thingamabobs, and he goes straight for the little rubber bath toys. The simplicity of a child....

2006-12-27T00:32:00.001-05:00

Mommy and me...
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I love being a mommy. This little runt made out like a bandit with his piles of presents. You know, I used to be the one with all the gifts, but I think those days are gone. That's okay, I'm more than happy to spoil. Look at his face, how could you not? Next year, I'm really looking forward to Christmas. Then, he'll have a better understanding of what's going on. And next year, Isa will be running around too. This'll be a fun one...

2006-12-27T00:32:00.000-05:00

Hanging out at Nana's
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

After our family gift opening, we headed off to Kevin's parents' house. We do this every year, and meet up with the rest of his family. Everyone pitches in and bring a dish or two, and we eat like there's no tomorrow. Usually, we have to meet up with my family too. But they were in Florida, meeting the new baby. Although I was bummed I couldn't be there, and didn't get to spend Christmas with my family, I was relieved that we didn't have to rush around as we usually do with all the typical holiday stress. It was a good Christmas; but next year will be even better. I just know it. We'd just better start gearing up to be chasing children around the house! :)

New Addition

2006-11-21T22:45:00.000-05:00

isa
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Did I mention that I'm an aunt, and Gabriel finally has a cousin?! My brother, Erick, and his wife, El, had their baby 11/11. I'm so excited for them!

Things have been crazy hectic here as usual, which I'm learning is the norm these days. I booked a flight to go visit them for Thanksgiving, but Gabriel and I have caught a cold. I think I'm pretty much over it, but we'll see if Gabriel will be better tomorrow. I'm anxious to get my hands on little Isa(bella), but not if either one of us is sick. We'll see what happens....

I think it's so neat to see my brother and sister-in-law as parents. It's been such a joy having Gabriel, and I'm excited for them to know the feeling of the happiness and wonder that comes along with having a child. I know that Isa will bring them a whole new meaning to life.

Congratulation on your little one! I'm so very happy for you both! :) XXOO

First Family Trip

2006-11-06T22:53:00.002-05:00

pisgah_gabriel
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I commented to Kevin a few times that I would like to do more "family stuff." So, in response to that, he got a bright idea and came home with a new camper. We met with a couple of friends and headed out towards Asheville, NC to "rough it" for the weekend. Now, I say "roughing it" with the quotation marks boldly marked, as our camper had a bathroom and shower. Sorry buddy...that's as close to roughing it as I'm gonna get.

The evening hit 20's and the daytime was probably about in the 40's or 50's. Cold as shit! Gabriel cried both nights and kept me up all weekend. That was torture enough for me, and I spent my weekend pretty crabby. Although I'm not quite certain if I'll be back for more (especially before Gabriel is old enough to walk), I must admit that it was quite beautiful out there. The trees were bright reds and oranges, and we even ate all of our meals fireside, thanks to Todd!

Interesting for a first family trip, but I'm pretty sure it's a trip I won't be asking for again. Oh well. You don't know til you try!

2006-11-06T22:53:00.001-05:00

marshall family
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

2006-11-06T22:53:00.000-05:00

waterfall
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

This was pretty cool. We were able to park right by this waterfall and then only walk down a few "flights" to reach the water. We were so close that mist was actually wetting us. The bad part was we had to climb back up to get to our car. Whoof...I'm really out of shape big time. And I had to carry the baby...

2006-11-06T22:52:00.000-05:00

snorting
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I think this picture is so funny. Here's Gabriel doing this new snorty face thing while he huffs and snorts.

2006-11-01T22:33:00.000-05:00

I took a piece of plastic clay
And idly fashioned it one day;
And as my fingers pressed it still,
It moved and yielded at my will.

I came again when days were past,
The form I gave it still did last
And as my fingers pressed it still,
I could change that form no more at will.

I took a piece of living clay,
And gently formed it day by day,
And molded with my power and art,
A young child's soft and yielding heart.

I came again when days were gone;
It was a man I looked upon,
He still that early impress bore,
And I could change it never more.

Pass....

2006-10-29T23:08:00.000-05:00

MMMMM...don't you love waking up in the morning, having your husband cook you breakfast, and finding "things" floating up in your pancake batter?

Scary...

2006-10-26T23:25:00.000-04:00

Oh shit. A scary thing happened to me today. I've been tired as usual, but especially so today after being up very late last night trying to get groceries done and laundry and getting stuff ready. I drove home from work today with Gabriel and had to keep shaking my head to stay awake. Before I knew it, I jolted myself awake to find that I had fallen asleep at the wheel and had drifted onto the grass off of Old Highway 52. Shit, that was scary. Now what the hell am I doing up still working and trying to get more laundry done and blogging in this damned thing? I need a fucking break. I gotta get to bed...right now.

Rachel's In Town!

2006-10-25T12:05:00.000-04:00

rachel_gabriel
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

It seems that every time my girlfriend, Rachel, comes into town I'm working. Either that or there's something going on. I haven't seen her since her Bridal Shower back in May (?).

She called me last week to let me know she would be in, and I made sure to completely move my work schedule around to make time for her. I was especially excited because we had planned to fly Sunday, as she is a private pilot.

After working out a few kinks with Gabriel, we were dressed up and ready to head out to meet her and then head off to the airport. But Rachel calls to tell me the clouds and weather weren't ideal flying conditions. Damn. Regardless, we met up a couple hours later and had breakfast.

It's been awhile since Rachel and I have been able to hang out and shop. We used to really enjoy hitting the sales racks and doing typical female bonding things, but it's been a little difficult with Gabriel and my busy work schedule. Thankfully, Gabriel was well-behaved and we actually were very tame with our credit cards.

Aside from the crappy rainy weather, it was a day well spent for catching up. Great seeing you again, girl! We'll do the flying thing next time!! :)

2006-10-17T23:30:00.000-04:00

I know you were here this morning as I got the baby ready for work. My mind was on my agenda for the day, and suddenly, I felt your presence. I wasn't at all afraid; I felt happy and excited. I couldn't see you or hear you, but I felt you. I smiled and asked the baby to say hello. "Lolo and Lola, I'm so glad that you can finally meet him. This is your first great grandchild, Gabriel..." Somehow, you don't feel so far away anymore.

You Will Be Missed

2006-10-15T22:28:00.000-04:00

lolo_lola
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

Although you'll be missed, I'm not sad. I take comfort in knowing that you're together again, at last.

A Mother's Love Runs Deep

2006-10-15T00:03:00.001-04:00

A Mother's Love Runs Deep
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

I know some of you are wondering where the hell I've been. I've just been busy as hell. Trying to balance work and baby and sleep somewhere in between is almost impossible!

My mom has been sick, and Kevin's parents went out of town. They are my usual babysitters when I work. Seeing that I work 7 days a week most weeks, I don't often have him all day to myself.

Kevin was out of town this weekend, and with our parents gone and not feeling well, I took the weekend off to care for Gabriel. Damn, taking care of a baby is hard work! You'd think that it would have gotten easier by now, and I suppose it has. But to be honest, I think all you do is adjust or just get used to being tired all the time or something. On top of that, I ended up sick with the flu and was on my own to care for him. That sucked. All I could think about was bed, and all he could think about was playtime.

By Friday I was feeling better, but suffering from a major case of cabin fever. I don't often take Gabriel out with me, as he gets bored quickly and makes the most pleasurable shopping trips miserable. But with no other choice, I packed him up and off we went. Surprisingly, he's been very good all weekend. I suppose he's getting older and perhaps a teeny tiny bit more independent, but nonetheless a little more pleasant to have around 24/7.

You know, I was reluctant to take the weekend off and miss out on prospective clients, but it's been kind of nice to spend the weekend with just me and Gabriel. I've realized that he really is growing up. His personality has emerged, and I see he's playful and has a quirky sense of humor. Also, he's still got that little temper he's always had.

At the end of my tired day, I can finally get my hands free to finish my chores and quickly put myself to bed as well, preparing to start another day. You'd think that I would hastily put him in his crib with a sigh of relief, but I'm finding that when I lay him down, I miss him at night. I know that's sick, but I really do! I'm almost tempted to carry him to my bed and let him sleep with me, just to keep him near. Instead of running straight to my chores, I find myself lingering and watching him sleep. Once upon a time, I wouldn't let him sleep in my arms, for fear of spoiling him. But now that I see how quickly he's growing, I savor it. It's true...I've heard it before but here recently, I've started to realize it. You never really know love until you've had a child.

Tonight as I watched Gabriel nestled against me, I thought about how much my life has changed. I thought about how I have no personal time anymore, and how my days rush by day in and day out in a constant blur. And still, especially at moments like these, I look at him in awe and I'm convinced that he must be the most perfect creature. And yet even more bewildering is the fact that this perfect little creature sleeping peacefully in my arms is mine.

Evolution of Dance

2006-09-17T23:03:00.000-04:00

this is so freaking funny!

Happy Birthday To Me!

2006-09-11T22:36:00.000-04:00

29th bday
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

This past Friday, I celebrated my 29th birthday. I promised Kevin I would take the day off, but we ended up both running out of the house in the morning and getting straight to work. I couldn't help it; I just had so much crap to do. Besides, I can't say that I've been much in a celebrating mood. Aw, crap. It's my last year in my 20's. I always wondered what the big deal was after 21.

Kevin asked me what I wanted for my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and I couldn't think of a thing. I did, however, know what I didn't want. I absolutely didn't want a birthday party. To me, the best gift would be to let me sleep in, and wake up to a clean house. Running around and cleaning up for guests and then after just doesn't seem like much of a gift. Apparently, I didn't get either one of those idea gifts-and the icing on the cake to this story? I spoiled his birthday surprise party he'd been planning on for a month.Oops.

Kevin had numerous phone calls the day before my birthday with people wondering why they never received invitations to the party he had been speaking about. He had to explain that I made it very clear that I did not want a party, and he cancelled plans. I felt bad, but not disappointed.

After finally dragging me away from work, Kevin and I took the motorcycle out for lunch on the beach, then enjoyed dessert downtown. Very low-key, but quite alright with me. I was just about ready to put Gabriel to bed when we got home and then treat myself to an early bedtime for myself, but found one last present. Kevin had flowers and a cake greeting me with a birthday card filled with....shopping money! He felt a little guilty that the gift was so "impersonal," but to be honest, I've found that freedom of gift cards and shopping money are always welcomed by me!

**sigh**My last year as a twenty-something-year-old....

Family In Town!

2006-09-07T22:39:00.000-04:00

I've been extremely busy here the last week or so. I've picked up a couple of listings, and a few buyers, so I've been kind of running around and trying to earn a paycheck. This weekend, however, Erick, Rachel, and Eleanor were visiting to celebrate El and Erick's soon to be baby girl. It was a much welcomed excuse for me to take a day off of work. Thank God, because the day before the shower, I was running all over the place, and ended up with a work day much longer than intended.

baby 229
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

The shower was ironically held in a real estate office (I felt a little funny pulling up in the parking lot, with my Prudential signs on my truck), and the weather was unfortunately rainy and yucky. That didn't stop everyone from showing up though, bearing gifts galore. El's sister had thought up some cute games for the ladies to play, and I think that it all worked out pretty nicely. Here's a picture of Erick and El opening up the presents from us. I found an adorable turtle outfit for Isabella at Gymboree's, where I recently spent an assload on a shopping spree, searching for stuff for Gabriel, Isabella, and Ava. In fact, Erick and El informed me how they didn't really like Gymboree's stuff...prior to opening up their present, of course. Doh! Ha, ha...open mouth, insert foot. I think they liked the outfit anyway...or, so they say...

baby 228
Originally uploaded by

Anyway, Erick's disappointment with the outfit quickly turned to joy when he realized I purchased the nursing breast pads he had registered for. He'll be even more excited when he finds out I bought him the synthetic boobs to match.

This Has Been A Better Week

2006-08-28T22:47:00.000-04:00

Well, I've been feeling pretty low about real estate. I had some nice solid leads fall through and I was beginning to consider getting into new construction. In fact, I had an interview with a builder; which according to him went really well. I waited for over a week, sitting on pins and needles, and finally I decided that whatever happened would be what was meant to happen.

I told Kevin that I was looking forward to hearing my answer if I would be offered the position to represent a new construction site in Summerville. I was either looking forward to being offered the position, or looking forward to not being offered the position and realizing that general brokerage would work out for me. Whatever it was, it would all work out.

Well, I did not get offered the position, but surprisingly, I wasn't the least bit upset. It simply meant that it wasn't meant to be, and there would be something out there waiting to happen. And sure enough, just as I was dying of boredom, I've been asked to list 2 houses. Oh, and on top of that I had a very good open house and picked up leads from every single person that came in. Who really knows what will become of these new leads? They can always fall through too. You know, the frustrations are really all part of the business; that's just the way it is. But when you actually get to make it to the closing table, it just makes it all that much sweeter...

Time to try to make these work--wish me luck!

It's Funny How Things Work Out

2006-08-22T22:08:00.000-04:00

Fire
Originally uploaded by xosunnydaysxo.

On my way to church this past Sunday, I was stunned to see our sanctuary with a large gaping hole. Apparently, it had endured a pretty serious fire. The volunteers were leading the congregation to their parking and directing us to an extension building to hold our services in.

I found out later that Friday evening, a fire had started in one of the classrooms and was put out by the fire department. A few hours later, another fire broke out in another classroom and spread, making it to our sanctuary. The fire was so bad, that they had to flood the church. Everything is completely destroyed.

So, here we were in the extension building that was just completed a couple months back. Yes, it was warm and overcrowded, with not enough chairs for the congregation to sit, but nonetheless we were able to have a place of worship that Sunday. And a day or two before the fire, the path to the extension was completed too. Our nursery and everything in it was destroyed, but the Royal Rangers building for kids was newly completed and able to be used as a nursery for now. What a coincidence, huh?

I hear that some of the volunteers or workers went to the stores to restock the nursery for baby equipment, but once the word spread about the fire, they were able to pick out whatever the children needed and it was all donated to the church. That's awfully generous!

I found myself feeling relieved and thankful that nobody was hurt during the fire (especially in the nursery). I can't help but feel this all as somehow helped my wavering faith, and reminds me that God truly does work in mysterious ways.